Welcome, I'm Mrs. Thrifty...I've not always been the wisest with money but I've smartened up over the years. My early 20's were not always the wisest years but I changed my ways over the years and now I much more responsible than I was.
I started becoming a spender when I was 16. I got a job at a supermarket as a bagger and my weekly routine was to go to the mall and spend spend spend. If I saw something, I would buy it. I really didn't pay attention to my folks who said "You really need to save". I was enjoying myself. It was the first time I got expensive clothes and it made me feel good. I no longer was getting teased from my classmates about my appearance or stuff. Shopping was a rush...
Then I got to college. The first week I was there, I opened a credit card. They stationed their booth right outside the dorm and they had a cool T-Shirt so why not? My first purchase was a pair of J Crew Construction Boots and I told myself I would pay it off but I didn't...
Then came along a mooch of a boyfriend. He was super cheap and I was very generous. I would take us out to dinner, buy him stuff, etc. Then came the end of college, I was $5K in debt from credit cards. As a graduation gift, my parents paid it off..
But I didn't stop charging...Graduate school was a stretch and there were times that I had to put stuff on the card. I graduated then moving back to the North came with costs that I couldn't pay plus it took me a few months to find a job and Mooch did not help me during this time so I was getting more in debt. I started to sell things on eBay to make ends meet. I finally got a job, moved out of mooch's place, and continued to charge. Then I heard Dave Ramsey...
It was about 2001 when I heard his message of becoming Debt Free. This was a new concept to me. What, not use a credit card? So I tried it...and it worked. I was able to pay off $6K in credit card debt, $9K car loan, and $16K financial aid loan in about 3 years.
Since then, I have become a lot more responsible. Luckily, I met Mr. Thrifty so he is on the same level of thriftiness as I am. We got married, had a cheap but beautiful wedding $5K all together and we started to merge ourselves financially...
Now that is a difficult task. As you can see, I make more money than Mr. Thrifty and just because I was debt free besides my car does not constitute that I was a saver. So I was a huge impulse shopper, especially on the web. I paid cash for it, but I necessarily did not need it. I have a whole closet of "good deals" that I don't use. I found it perfectly acceptable when we first got married to buy anything I wanted without consent...
Now that all changed when he lost his job. Mr. Thifty was a pilot and the small operation he worked for let him go because they lost a contract. 7 months after getting married, Mr. Thrifty was unemployed. We had a small emergency fund but not the 3-6 months living expenses that they recommend. DH was fortunate to get a temp like job and it was at that point where we fully merged the financial aspect of our lives. We lived on my income and put away his money that he earned. During his unemployment we were able to save about $4K and still pay off a piece of property that we bought. My thoughts turned to saving...
So I became obsessed with budgeting and saving. I opened up a Emigrant account and got a good idea where the money was going. DH got a job 9 months later in a different field and it offered benefits beyond his wildest imagination. He never had a 401(K) or a pension so he has both.
So here we are at almost 31 and 34 without a house but with minimal debt. Our financial goal is to become debt free in early 2007. Then we are on super saving mode and will save save save. We currently rent a home from an elderly individual who is in a nursing home and the rent is about $650. Our goal is to save as much as we can until she passes away and the house is sold. Then we are onto buying. With being in our 30's, a starter home is out. We're going to have to jump into a larger home. I hope the housing market stays steady until we're ready to buy. The good thing is that I still look for homes weekly on the net. So far, I haven't seen anything that I would want to buy. To make matters more complicated, we are currently stuck in our current area right now because it is half way between our work places. I travel 1 hour north to my job, Mr. Thrifty travels 1 hour south to his job. We like the houses architecture wise about a mile from our rental home but unfortunately the school district is horrible and if we have children, they would have to be sent to private school and I don't really want that. So, we are waiting...and saving.
My hopes is to document the journey into the house, share some saving tips, and get feedback also. Thanks for stopping by...Mrs. Thrifty